中国的约会观念

(zhōngguó de yuēhuì guānniàn, Dating opinions in China)

在中国，很多人认为约会很重要。  

   (Zài zhōngguó, hěn duō rén rènwéi yuēhuì hěn zhòngyào; In China, many people think dating is important.)

很多年轻人希望找到一个适合的人 (shìhé de rén; suitable person) 做他们的朋友。  

   (Hěn duō niánqīng rén xīwàng zhǎodào yī gè shìhé de rén zuò tāmen de péngyǒu; Many young people want to find a suitable person to be their friend.)

在大城市，人们常常有更多机会约会。  

   (Zài dà chéngshì, rénmen chángcháng yǒu gèng duō jīhuì yuēhuì; In big cities, people often have more opportunities to date.)

很多父母 (fùmǔ; parents) 也会关心孩子的约会。  

   (Hěn duō fùmǔ yě huì guānxīn háizi de yuēhuì; Many parents also care about their children’s dating.)

你想跟我约会吗

是的。

太好了！ 然后，我们可以结婚吧。

美国的约会观念

(měiguó de yuēhuì guānniàn; dating opinions in America)

在美国，约会很自由。  

   (Zài měiguó, yuēhuì hěn zìyóu; In America, dating is very free.)

人们喜欢找到自己喜欢的人。  

   (Rénmen xǐhuān zhǎodào zìjǐ xǐhuān de rén; People like to find someone they like.)

很多年轻人不急于结婚。  

   (Hěn duō niánqīng rén bù jí yú jiéhūn; Many young people are not in a rush to get married.)

美国人通常会和很多人约会，才找到适合的对象 (duìxiàng; match, partner)

   (Měiguó rén tōngcháng huì hé hěn duō rén yuēhuì, cái zhǎodào shìhé de duìxiàng; Americans often date many people to find the right match.)

Will you marry me?

I don't want to get married. 

我的看法和建议

(wǒ de kànfǎ hé jiànyì; my views and suggestions)

选择一个适合的朋友很重要。  

   (Xuǎnzé yī gè shìhé de péngyǒu hěn zhòngyào; Choosing a suitable friend is important.)

我的要求是一个人要有责任心 (zérènxīn; sense of responsibility) 和爱心 (àixīn; compassion)。 

   (Wǒ de yāoqiú shì yī gè rén yào yǒu zérènxīn hé àixīn; My requirements are for someone with responsibility and compassion.)

约会时要尊重对方 (duìfāng; each other)。  

   (Yuēhuì shí yào zūnzhòng duìfāng; During dating, respect for each other is important.)

不要太快开始一段关系，要慢慢了解对方。  

   (Bù yào tài kuài kāishǐ yī duàn guānxì, yào màn màn liǎojiě duìfāng; Don't start a relationship too quickly; get to know each other slowly.)

年轻人的约会指南

(niánqīng rén de yuēhuì zhǐnán; dating guide for young people)

确保你们有相同的兴趣 (xìngqù; interests)。  

   (Quèbǎo nǐmen yǒu xiāngtóng de xìngqù; Make sure you have similar interests.)

要有耐心 (nàixīn; patience)，慢慢地了解。  

   (Yào yǒu nàixīn, mànmàn de liǎojiě; Be patient and get to know each other slowly.)

不要只看外表 (wàibiǎo; appearance)，要看内在 (nèizài; inner qualities)。  

   (Bù yào zhǐ kàn wàibiǎo, yào kàn nèizài; Don’t just focus on looks, consider inner qualities.)

学会沟通 (gōutōng; communication)，彼此理解。  

   (Xuéhuì gōutōng, bǐcǐ lǐjiě; Learn to communicate and understand each other.)

遵循指南的好处

(zūnxún zhǐnán de hǎochù; benefits of following the guide)

如果遵循这些建议，你会找到一个更合适的朋友。  

   (Rúguǒ zūnxún zhèxiē jiànyì, nǐ huì zhǎodào yī gè gèng héshì de péngyǒu; If you follow these suggestions, you will find a better match.)

否则，可能会遇到一些关系问题。  

   (Fǒuzé, kěnéng huì yùdào yīxiē guānxì wèntí; Otherwise, you may encounter some relationship problems.)

遵循 (zūnxún; to follow) 这些指南，你可以有更好的沟通和理解。  

   (Zūnxún zhèxiē zhǐnán, nǐ kěyǐ yǒu gèng hǎo de gōutōng hé lǐjiě; Following these guidelines, you can have better communication and understanding.)